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Posted by ahkuen on 8:53 PM

I don’t know where i yam cha now, my friend fetch me and i slept in her car(too tired cause early in the morning go badminton).

And then when i reach here, quite a nice place, waiter/waitress so leng zai leng lui hahaha. It was a happy night i thought, until i go toilet and i receive a call from qiqi when i was going to toilet, after awhile, i checked my phone i realize there are some miss call, and then 1 message come from some one, being say that i purposely not answering her/his call and i explain to her/him that i really cannot listen because it’s really too noisy here. Some how she/he not believe.

So, what’s the purpose they called me so urgent?it’s because of tonight its suppose to be a clubbing night for MSH. But due to my friend who just come back from shang hai and insist want to celebrate with me tonight before she going back home town for CNY.I told winter,qiqi that i cannot make it tonight to clubbing cause got date liao.

At 1st,i really don’t want go cause i dislike clubbing not until hate,but just don’t like, since they going as a gang, i thought there is nothing if without me.But today i been told by winter that there was actually a birthday party for me (18 January is my birthday), i was surprise too, but i already promise to my friend so i tell her that i don’t want to go.

It’s should be a happy night for me, but then suddenly my mood sad, i am really sad, been say that i find excuse for ffk, and alot of thing, i am really down, very very down.

i have to pass it back to my friend.

I SAY SORRY TO THE PEOPLE WHO “FFK” BY ME, AND THANK YOU THAT YOU GUYS GIVNG ME SUCH SURPRISE PARTY FOR ME.

This year birthday, i cannot forget forever, after the incident years ago, this is one of the most sad birthday i had.

6 sohai Involve:

Comment by Unknown on January 16, 2009 at 9:44 AM

the prob is not whether u come or not...if u told us earlier u doesn't wanna come, who will force u? and u don't know what people is angry at...u just ASSUMED urself...if u wanna know the reason, msn find me...the reason u ASSUMED is not the real reason

 
Comment by Harry on January 16, 2009 at 12:40 PM

Hey bro, here some comment for you. of course you have the right to choose whether you wanted to come or not. But the problem now is not whether you coming or not, is your attitude towards how you handling stuff.
Yes, we were wrong because we didn't tell you actually we wanted to give you a birthday surprise. I'm very sorry about that. I'm the one who planned for everything. I am sorry about all these. Sorry bro.
You tell different people with different stories where I don't really care about it. I care how you handle your stuff. DID msn you before you go out? Don't tell me you were not around when I msn you. Before I msn you, your personal message is "tired". After 10 minutes I msn you, changed to "out". I assume you very rush that time. Can you just leave me a sms? When you were on the phone with QiQi and QiQi pass the phone to me and talk to you, you hang up. That's a bit rude right?
Alvin Chunn, things might not as complex as you thought. I still remember you love to hang out with MSH gang and everyone knows Alvin Chunn cannot be missed out. I still remember you posted this before, 'I mind because I treat you as a friend. I argue because I care.' I really mind about it because I really treat you as a friend. And you know is not going to be those ordinary friends that everyone can have.
I don't know why the hell I'm writing all these to you. I just feel very upset with you judgement towards us. I had a sad birthday that's why I know what birthday is all about. I'll try to give a very very memorable birthday to you guys. Guess you don't let me to do so. No hard feelings. Just some of my thought. Happy birthday to you.

 
Comment by ahkuen on January 16, 2009 at 5:12 PM

ok, at 1st, i din say i dun wanna come, i juz said dat i could come if i finish here early cozz i knew dats a bday party, yet u say dat i finding a excuse to ffk and ask me dun talk cock to u.
as for harry, i would say soli to u cozz i hang up ur phone and thank you for planning so much thg for me but i din attend, u do not nid to say soli to me but i really say thank you to u, let me ask u somethg, if u scolding by some1, or some1 not even blif wat u say and even saying some rude word to me after i saying soli dat i din pick up some phone, if i show up, is dat means :"alvinchunn u scolded by ppl and u still got face to come?wtf r u think." dats my thought rite now, as for msn, i din receive any msg from u, i dunno if u blif me or not, dat time i was chatting wif winter. lets c, if there is 10 ppl going, am i nid to sms 10 ppl explain?i tot i onli hav to tell some ppl dat can help me at least inform, sadly, i will do inform every1 next time.

 
Comment by Unknown on January 16, 2009 at 6:32 PM

come on la...who on earth tell u i'm angry coz u don't come?since u wanna put everything here, i will put everything here...u r pretending like we r 3 yrs old kids and fooling us around u know?you said you never confirm with anyone whether you are coming or not...but in your post you yourself indicate clearly that you told qiqi and winter that you don't wanna come...moreover what had you told us?you doesn't know that we are celebrating for you...but qiqi told you few days before yesterday...
if you mind that i'm being rude, i'm ready to apologize...i said it, i'm ready to be responsible to it...
but then come on la...is this the first day we know each other?if we will think like what you think, then we won't get into a gang since the beginning...if you did show up, i'm ready to apologize for everything...
but now you are the one who turned yourself into a dead end...
you can tell us clearly since the beginning that you doesn't like clubbing...but the fact is you didn't...
you assumed everything yourself...
I didn't get angry coz you don't show up...
I was pissed off coz you told different stories to different ppl...
you know what makes a fren? trustworthy...
its not that you pick up qiqi's phone doesn't pick up our phone piss me off...
try to think vice versa...you planned everything for someone...
you counted that person in for something thats important...you try to make that person's bday unforgettable...
but yet, that person give you no logic reasons in not showing up...
we don't need you to inform everyone of us for your absence...
but at least can you don't make it not logic?
you told winter that no one invite you to clubbing...
is that the truth? think once again...i am damn sure you forgot something in the middle...
sorry for my rudeness...if thats what you need...
and if next time i pissed you off, i won't show up as well...coz now i know how you will think of me that time...
thank you~~~

 
Comment by Harry on January 16, 2009 at 7:51 PM

Hey, seriously if is not my problem of all these, of course I still will go. Yes you do not need to inform everyone but you should inform the person who organize this. You called some of them and you keep asking why would all these happened to you. Let's just open our heart, 'i tot i onli hav to tell some ppl dat can help me at least inform, sadly, i will do inform every1 next time.'--->why you need to tell someone who can help you to inform whereby you can directly deal with the person. I don't like to behave like that. I WILL DO INFORM EVERY1 NEXT TIME. What is this? Is that some sort of satisfaction to everyone? All these things is because of your attitude towards everything. Grow up, be a man, show some sportsmanship.

 
Comment by ahkuen on January 16, 2009 at 8:36 PM

so?in the end of all these, u think i am not sportsmanship enaf?not mature enaf?ok i dun want to say anythg of these topic since there is somethg like wat my mum said 没完没了,i edi said soli to every1 who attend yesterday,if u r not satisfy with all these and still trying to giving me some thing like "ajaran?". Keep going bah, i will listen. i am not going to reply on these,i not wat i did wrong i say soli, i mean it.